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A way to find the motivation to clean the house

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Dear Heloise: Here are a couple of hints that your readers might find helpful. Sometimes when my house needs a good cleaning, and I really don't want to get to it, I've found that the best thing to get me motivated is to invite company over. Works like a charm.

Also, if company is coming for dinner, I set the table a few days ahead (though, not so many days that I will have to dust the dishes). Saves time and sanity at the last minute. -- Ann, via email

FREELANCE WORK FOR SENIORS

Dear Heloise: In response to the senior gentleman who complained about employers not wanting to hire older people, I have a suggestion: freelance work. I live in an over 55 community. We are always looking for dependable people, and electricians are often top on the list. Whether it's handy people, mechanics -- you name it, we need it.

If it's possible to offer discounts to other seniors, that would be a bonus, even though many of us can afford to pay more.

Another idea is to organize a group at your place of worship or another group you belong to so you can help people there or within the community. There are so many opportunities to use one's skills. -- J.V.H., via email

ADVICE FOR THE ELDERLY

Dear Heloise: I have some hints that might help some elderly readers: My podiatrist recommended Crocs to wear at home for better support. They've worked very well for years.

Also, remember the phrase "If you don't use it, you lose it"? As I've grown older, I've learned that this maxim is true. To improve balance, stand on one foot, alternating right and left for 10 seconds each. Try three sets daily.

Finally, exercise is a must. This includes walking, running (if capable) and weight lifting. Concentrate on four areas -- biceps, triceps, quads and core. Start slowly and increase repetitions as you gain strength. Exercising daily is recommended until it becomes a habit. You will start to see amazing results if you try.

I read your column daily. Thank you. -- Daniel, San Antonio

CURSIVE SOUND OFF

Dear Heloise: A column in the Dayton Daily News included a letter from a reader about the Miamisburg, Ohio, school district not teaching cursive writing to her grandkids. I totally concur with her that schools should teach all kids cursive. If they cannot read or write cursive, they won't even be able to read our U.S. Constitution or Declaration of Independence!

Shame on schools across America for not thinking about the repercussions of such a lapse in wisdom. -- Sue, Centerville, Ohio

Send a money-saving or timesaving hint to Heloise@Heloise.com. I can't answer your letter personally but will use the best hints received in my column.

BAD CHRISTMAS GIFTS

Gift-giving can be tough sometimes, so here are some bad Christmas gift ideas to avoid:

-- For kids, skip the clothing. Find out what toys they like or what hobbies they're interested in.

-- Be very careful about gifting kitchen appliances. Many people don't consider it a "gift" unless they asked for that particular appliance.

-- I don't recall anyone ever asking for a vacuum under their tree. Think of something more creative.

-- If someone is on a strict diet, don't get them a box of chocolates or "a pastry of the month" club membership. This also goes for skydiving lessons, yoga classes, ballroom dancing or any other activity that the recipient has not expressed interest in.

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